Wild Grapes

As I posted last time I am clearing an area to plant fruit trees. I have wild grape vines everywhere they criss-cross the ground and are great at catching my toe and tripping me, I haven’t fallen yet but I am positive it is just a matter of time.

I was reading an article about wild grapes and realized these are most likely the same wild grapes we found on my grand parents farm and occasionally we would find clusters of grapes hanging on a fence row. You couldn’t eat the skin it was too tough but they were pretty sweet on the inside. Grandpa called them mustang grapes, now I believe that was Texan for Muscadines.

So I have decided to see if I can tame my mustang grapes and make some wild grape jam. I bought a Muscadine grape vine and I have located two wild grape vines that are fairly thick and I am preparing an arbor for them to grow on and am hopeful that the wild grapes will pollinate the purchased vine. The description of the purchased vine indicated this was possible.

Meemaw Duty

So looks like I am on full time Meemaw Duty this week, LD’s babysitter is ill and I am always on call. I love keeping T he’s such a busy little man. And I may be a little prejudiced but he’s very bright and keeps me hopping. Today we watched Disney music videos on YouTube. He loved them, we also went outside and he ran around in the leaves and climbed in the trailer. He found 2 sticks on the ground and I think one was a flashlight and the other come kind on laser gun. By the time he went down for a nap I was exhausted and needed a nap too.

I had planned to work on my orchard today, it will be raining tomorrow, but an almost 3 year old would be too much to keep up with in the wide open spaces, and I don’t move as fast as he does.

Two years ago I bought some peaches at a farmers market, they weren’t real big but the colors were really pretty. They were delicious, everything a peach should be sweet and firm to the bite and the aroma….. So I saved the pits and planted them in the fall in some planters that normally contain tomatoes in the summer. In the spring I had 6 little peach tree sprouts. I transferred them to bigger pots to allow them to grow get bigger. This year they are all about 2 feet tall and I am planning to transplant them to an area I have been clearing of wild grape, hickory saplings and other unidentified small trees. It is really hard work, lots of bending over and raking. I also have purchased 2 Damson plum trees, 2 apple trees and was given a nectarine tree and a pear tree as a birthday gift. I have been reading about permaculture and companion plantings, this is my goal for all my fruit trees. I also plan to put in a flower bed for attracting pollinators.

I can’t figure out why some folks I talk to about retirement ask me if I am bored yet, I am trying to figure out why I didn’t retire sooner, I have such a long list of projects I haven’t even begun.

 

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A New Year

Our new year has begun very happily, a new grand-baby expected in September. JK & PMc will be here for a visit with that little ginger haired boy in a few weeks. Sales were good at the Store during November and December and January is promising. Life is good! God is good, all the time!

I am busy preparing for ‘the visit’ and cooking. We have invited the family and a few close friends to come and visit with us while they are here. I  love having people here, hope the weather holds up and no one else gets sick.

Father in law has been in the hospital, an infection similar to bed sores on his leg from compression stockings rubbing on his legs. At 96 any illness is life threatening. He is amazing in the way he always bounces back from them. Mother in law is a bundle of nerves but she always hangs in like a trooper.

I am still cleaning out closets and decluttering, how did we accumulate all of this stuff?

I know the answer, I am a sentimental person and can’t bear to part with cards and little trinkets. I have become heartless. Decided to only keep greeting cards from family (children and JB) and only birthday and anniversary. Eliminated dozens of shoeboxes.

While cleaning out my closet I discovered a couple of truths about myself, first I will never be a size 14 again and I am a shoebox horder. It is true! I found 12 empty shoeboxes in my closet.

I do like shoeboxes, when I was a kid I had all my treasures stored in shoeboxes under my bed, where hopefully my brothers would not find them. Some of them are fairly sturdy and handy for storing memorabilia, but a surplus of 12 is excessive. So I sent them off to be recycled into something new and hopefully just as useful. Continue reading “A New Year”

Winter Time

It’s winter time here cold and blustery and so of course the central heat stopped working on Christmas Day. It could have been worse, usually at this time of year we have a house full of our children and their children. Our married children rotate holidays with their in laws and us. This was our year to have them at Thanksgiving, so Christmas Day was quiet. Thank heavens we have a wood burning stove in the living room that can keep the house comfortable, but I never would have made it as a pioneer woman. Keeping that stove going all day for 4 days was a lot of work.

Christmas felt a little strange this year, not sure why, was it because I was able to do more baking and more hands on gift making? Or was it just the children weren’t around and it was just JB and I and we were very relaxed?

Well, I’m retired…

What a weekend I have had! Friday evening a group of us from I.C. went to Santo Coyote to celebrate my retirement. It was such fun, service was terrible but we were enjoying each others company so much we didn’t mind. As I was leaving i.C. I had a moment when it all hit me. I had turned in my keys and loaded my car and was walking out the back door and I realized this finally was the last time I would be here. Not the last month or the last week or even the last day it was the last moment! I had a knot in my chest and I felt as though I couldn’t breath.

As we were sitting at the table I looked up and there by the door was a man I recognized but couldn’t place, then I realized it was my brother GH from Houston. I know I got up and ran to hug him but don’t recall if I screamed or squealed, knowing me I did both. I was so surprised and pleased to see him. He and his sweet wife VH had driven up for LD’s party on Saturday night. WOW!!!

The next day LD needed me to keep T so she could continue to prepare for the extravaganza she had planned, so I was busy all day caring for him. We went for a walk down the road from the house and he collected rocks and ran and talked non stop. It was a really great day. JB was busy working on our new home project, a green house. I’m so excited about this, we had some fellas out a week or so ago to level the site and now JB is building the forms for the foundation.

The party was amazing, friends from work, old friends, newer friends and family. LD roasted a pig in her back yard and all the side dishes were so good. The theme was Luau so she had inflatable palm trees and flamingos and grass skirt aprons on all the tables, tiki torches, flower leis and she had made my favorite Pla-di-do in a beverage dispenser. It was so much fun and great to see everyone. Suday was a quiet day, G & V left to go back home, L & W & T took the day off to rest from thier labors of the previous few days.

And I spent the day trying to wrap my head around not needing to get ready for the new week at work. Still pretty surreal!

 

My last week …….

This is my last week at I.C. It seems so surreal, this has been planned for nearly 2 years and now it’s here I can’t believe it.

My replacement has been trained, she is amazing and will do a great job. I have been slowly taking home all the ‘stuff’ I have accumulated in my office over the last 28 years, 2 months and 4 days. Fr J has given me the statue of the Immaculate Conception that I have had in my office for about 25 years. Msgr J gave it to me when they found it stuck back in a closet in the church, she has a few chips on her gown but she has the most beautiful face and I really, really wanted to take her with me.

LD (daughter)& RF(granddaughter) are throwing me a combination birthday party and retirement bash on Saturday evening. They have been planning it for weeks. Should be fun.

Lots of stuff going on this week, Thursday the office staff are taking me out for my birthday to El Porton. Friday nite we are all going to Santo Coyote for margaritas and guacamole & cheese dip. LD will join us just in case I need a designated driver to get me home. Still does not feel real.

 

I love the rain….

this morning I woke a little later than usual (5:20 am), I have the day off because it is a Holy Day of Obligation, the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into heaven. It was still dark outside, as I was making my way to the kitchen for my tea I heard thunder way off in the distance. I love to sit on the the screened porch when it rains, especially when there is thunder & lightening and it is dark outside.

The view from the porch  is of the woods behind our house and this time of year the forest is pretty dense. We’ve had alot of rain this year and everything is very green, Normally August is hot hot and dry, not this year, and July had more rain than usual so we have beautiful green trees.

Anyway, back to this mornings storm, it is really putting on a show. The cat is nervous, she doesn’t care for the noise and flashes. She is either trying to sit on my chest or hiding under my chair. Poor baby girl, Ophelia was a stray who wandered up to a friends home one afternoon. She fed her for a couple of days and tried to find her owner but no one came forward. She put her picture on Facebook and when I saw her. I fell in love. She’s a calico and was very thin and had an injury on her hip that needed attention.

JB wasn’t crazy about our new feline but she has grown on him. Our last cat Miz Kitty was mostly his cat, she passed away a few years ago. and though he would never admit it he has missed her. But, that will be another post. After several visits to the vet she is healthy and has settled in as a permanent part of our home. She must have been an inside/outside cat because she is litter box trained but she loves to go outside which I won’t let her do because I am afraid she will wander off or be attacked by some of the wild life out here. She doesn’t understand.

Ophelia prefers my company to anyone else to the point that she has actually hissed and growled at JB when he enters the room, but then she will get in his lap if he is sitting on the couch with me.  She does not like little people and hides when TW comes to visit and if he should get too close, she hisses and slaps at him. So, we do our very best to keep them apart. I hope one day she will tolerate him.

Time to get started on my ‘day off chores’. Later!

 

 

I am preparing to begin a new phase in my life.

Retirement! After 4o years working as a bookkeeper and 28 of it at our church as the parish bookkeeper, I am retiring. A few years ago I was having some health issues and I decided it was time to start planning for my exit. There were just way too many things that I wanted to do and never seemed to have the time.

It is difficult to describe my emotions concerning retirement. On one hand I am excited, I finally will have the time to spend all day making pottery, or sewing or gardening or cooking or writing in this blog and not need to worry that tomorrow I will need to go back to the office and the laundry won’t be done or the furniture won’t be dusted or the floors won’ t be swept.

On the other hand, I will be sad to be leaving a job I love and people I love. I began at the church when my eldest daughter began kindergarten, she is now in her 30’s and just had her first child. I have seen so many changes in nearly 30 years, new pastors and associate pastors. Each with their distinct personalities, and I learned much about our faith from each one.

This year three of us from the office either will retire or have already retired. My dear, dear friend Mary, she and I shared an office for several years and many confidences about our children and husbands. She has the most conviction about her faith of anyone I know, and I have grown in my faith because of her. Sweet Clarene, who can remember what someone ate for dinner and what they were wearing from 30 years ago, and has the simple faith of a child. These women became my sisters we have laughed and cried together so many times. There are new faces in the office now and I have come to love them too, although they are more my children’s ages than mine.

Not sure what I will do first, I’m sure it will take me a week or two to grow accustomed to not going to work everyday. It will be tough but, I am equal to the task.